Shar Jackson

My sympathy goes out to Shar Jackson. If it’s any comfort to you, its apparant that he is using her for her money. Unlike Cris Judd, Kevin is in it for the wrong reasons and Britney seems to be a lost little girl(as Christina stated in Blender Mag)without Justin. Britney received so much unearned positive attention for dating Justin that she doesn’t know how to be alone so she is buying Kevin’s affections. It was reported that the engagement ring came from an allowance he receives from her. Where is the love in this relationship. Britney knows that she is losing popualrity and needs to stay in the headlines. Keep your head up and think about all the child support you’ll be able to get once they are married.

DON’T SWEAT IT SHAR IT WON’T LAST BESIDES IT’S HIS LOST NOT YOURS AND WHEN SHE KICKS HIM TO THE CURB HE WILL COME CRAWLING BACK THEY ALWAYS DO AND WHEN HE DOES SEND HIM ON HIS WAY GIRL!!!!!!!!!!

This is just a stepping stone, Shar. Anyone(Britney) who thinks that this guy is going to be faithful after cheating on his girlfriend and leaving her while she is pregnant,is aloof. Britney is young and beleives she is in love. Too bad she has not figured out that if this guy really loved his kids, as he says, he would do whatever he could to give them a proper home. I just can’t believe the mother blessed this. Too bad for all involved. You will find better days ahead. It is difficult to think of that now, but try to stay on the mature side of all this.

Shar, the only thing that I am able to say to you is that the best revenge is living well. You can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes, and after that, you’d better know something. Britney is young, foolish and knows nothing. Hold your head up, cherish being a Mom, and know that we all wish you loads of love, luck, and laughter.

Show them you are strong and mature. Britney is using him and he is using her. I wouldn’t give them the satisfaction of talking about either one of them in public. Apparently this guy uses rich women. He hooked up with you when you were loaded on the Moesha show, so go figure. When the money is gone, so is he! Let him marry the “Brit” so you can get paid. My motto “Don’t get mad, GET PAID!”

girl f* him, he no good. and poor brittney i though she was smarter than that. i dont understand she thinks she cant live without a man. once a cheat always a cheat

Nobody cares about this washed up actress except people who have nothing better to do than worry about what Britney is doing. Shar Jackson is history, let her wait in the welfare line with the rest.

Britney will have a good prenuptual agreement and when she gets tired of Kevin she can dump him with yesterday’s garbage.

The only reason you are posting this silly nonsense is that you don’t have men of your own. Otherwise you’d be spending time with them and not worry about what famous millionaires are doing.

Amen to that Smarty!!!!

Hey Shar,

Girl all I can say is do YOU ! You will be blessed in the end, take care of your babies and keep a positive attitude. I went through a similar situation and can relate to your situation. Britney will dump his ass before he knows what hit him. If her dumb butt wants to play Step-Mom then let her! Get your Support and keep it moving you are a beautiful black women.

Shar keep your head UP, most of these N out here today aint no good off top. You are a beautiful Woman and have two children who need your attention and they will be there to support you whenever things seem bad just look at them and know if you don’t want to Work again, Ms. Britney will be paying ya bills…and to ms. Smarty apparently you ain’t got s** to do yourself or you wouldn’t be reading talking about what we do, Get it together SHORTY.

I am proud of Shar, holding her head up and gettin on with it! He a typical guy, thinking with his “little head!”

Smarty,THISSOSTUPID,WHOM ARE THE REST? THAT ARE STANDING IN THE LINE? ARE THEIR MORE PEOPLE STANDING IN LINE TO HOOK UP WITH MR.[KEVIN]FEDERLINE? WOULD IT BE SAFE TO SAY BRITNEY GOT HIM FROM THE LINE? WAS HE WORKING A 9-5?

this message is to Smarty,and anyone else with this kind of attitude. It is so funny when people like you make comments like that, obviously you don’t have anyone to occupy your time, if you did you would’nt be sending messages. I guess the old saying is true Misery Loves Company!! Why are you calling Shar Jackson washed up she probably has more money then you and your family; did you want to act and could’nt make the cut or something why are you hating on the girl and this shit about waiting in the welfare line like the rest, that sounds like a racial comment targeted to single mothers or to single black mothers which ever way you meant it it was a racial comment. I think you have some big problems going on in your life and this is your way of expressing them If your on welfare it’s OK Im sure eventually you’ll get a better job. Smarty you need to change your name to Dummy! because thats ywhat you seem to be!

By the way who are you??? Oh I know a nobody that no one has heard of except the people on the chat line and the many websites I’m sure you’ve visited. Shar Jackson on the other hand gets paid and is known nationally, so looks like your the one washed up!

Shar,

All I can say is pray and turn it over to God, forgive and forget. Move on and take care of your children.

There are lots of “SBF” (Single Black female’s)out there that’s been done that and still going through what your facing.

Your not alone.

God see’s everything let him fight your battles.

Shar,

All I can say is pray and turn it over to God, forgive and forget. Move on and take care of your children.

There are lots of “SBF” (Single Black female’s)out there that’s been down that road including myself.

Your not alone.

God see’s everything let him fight your battles.

atleast youv’e seen Kevin’s true colors now, be strong for your babies & KNOW that you can do bad by yourself. I’m sure Britney wasn’t the only tail he was chasing & you deserve better for yourself & for your babies. it hurts now but time will take care of that :)

I wish Britney and Kevin the best i hope they prove all of yall wrong and by the way just because you have kids you don’t have to stay with that person if you don’t love them that makes it worse on the kids in the long run and for all you freaking dumbies out there Miss Shar can’t make Britney pay know child support they will only take it out of his income not hers she didn’t have those kids so maybe yall need to learn a little more about child support and probably some of yall have had this happen to you but don’t be running Britney down cause yall know nothing about her or what had happen to kevin and Miss Shar all yall know is what you read and probably a one sided story you don’t know what happened to them for them splitting up you just see a pregnant woman that her boyfriend left her and so you assume he is the bad guy when it just as well could have been her fault you just don’t know anyways I wish them all the best and I hope they all keep the kids first cause afterall it is not the kids fault

shar,don’t worry about that little wanna be tramp britney.that;s why justin left her because she is no good.what kind of man would leave his ghild not to mention an unborn child.britney,says she plans to meet his daughter,what the hell does she think this is an instant family? he gets an allowance from her so technically she will be taking care of his kids.she’s the stupid one.to the person who made the comment about her standing in the welfare line if she did she would see you there as well.

Who is paying Shar Jackson anything now and why are they paying her?

Nobody is paying her anything. She was on a TV show. That is over. Most people only get one show. Then they go on to be meter maids or hotel clerks.

Like 18,000 former actresses and has beens whose names you’ve never known Shar Jackson is TV history. She’s no more special than actors and actresses that were on TV in the 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s &etc. How many of them have you heard of?

Given all the women who have been deserted by their men and forced to raise their children on their own why are people praising this LA woman? She has more money than most black mothers who’ve been deserted.

Feel sorry for them, not Shar Jackson.

Justin Timberlake left Britney because he was looking for a man to climb under and show him what he needed. And it was something to girl can give him.

Shar Jackson is one smart, fuuny, intelligent, young mother. Just because someome decided to cheat on her does not make her any different- just more human. A lot of men cheat on their g-friends and wifes day in and out.In her situation the people in this situation are famous. There are plenty of men that are good out there, and one day you will find someone who intends to do right by you and your children. For right now, just live life, and be content. Things could be so much worse. Don’t even be angry with him because he WILL reap what he sows. As far as Brittney, let her ride the train as far as will take her. A few million behind her don’t make her perfect. One Love

Britney doesn’t owe Shar Jackson anything. Britney did not impregnate Shar Jackson; Kevin Federline did. The situation is unfortunate for the children. But we don’t know what happened between Shar Jackson and Kevin Federline. There’s three sides to every story. There’s her side, Kevin’s side, and then there’s the truth. Call me redundant; But that’s what happens when you chose to have children with a man out of wedlock. If a man loves you, he will marry you before he makes children with you. As far as the comment about “Britney had better be ready to babysit”; that is so dumb. Even if Britney does marry Kevin, she doesn’t have to do anything she doesn’t want to do. They’re not her kids remember.

Obviously NO ONE knows what happened between Shar and Kevin but those two. What all involved must now think about are the children. While Brit didn’t impregnate Ms Jackson, once she decides to get married to this man, what’s his becomes hers and vice versa - that includes sharing in the responsibility of aiding in raising his children.

As to one of the earlier comments about Britney not having to pay child support, for the record most states DO consider the TOTAL marraige income when determining child support, so legally, she should be concerned.

Whether all of the comments made by Shar Jackson make sense to us or not, in more recent interviews she appears to be better handling the situation. From the outside looking in, it does appear she does have more than a little reason to be upset with Kevin but at least she recognizes the other woman isn’t the blame.

Of course some of us are only commenting on this because Britney Spears name is attached to it. To me, this speaks to alot women because some of us have been in this situation - either as Brit or Shar. Regardless, as a mother I hope Shar keeps her head up, if not for herself for her children. I think she’s entitled to be upset - all those extra hormanes can make us go crazy :-)

First I would like to say to Kristi and Russ!!! Take heed to the following in most states when people marry their incomes are both combined and Shar Jackson’s children are entitled to live just like the father. So dont think that Britney isnt going to pay!!!! Its not like Kevin makes oogles of money!!! You see what Whitney is going through with Bobby!!! Secondly Britney Spears is so silly. What grown adult woman in her right mind with all the money she has would go out and sleep with her BACKUP DANCER AND THEN AGREE TO MARRYING HIM!!! Did we learn nothing from J-LO!! This whole situation is silly and really boils down to peopel being immature and ill equiped for life.. I wish Shar Jackson the best because its hard raising kids on your own.

To Shar … Love yourself and kids as well as those who have that much influence in your life … you will be fine … you are still alive and healthy, and that matters becuase you have two kids to live for

To Kevin … once you are happy …respect due…just remember your kids in the whole phase of present and future

To Britany … no one does something without knowing what they are doing (what i just said makes perfect sense) … so hang in there

All the best to the three muskateers !!!

Britney is dumber than I actually thought she was. Two months and she is ready to marry the guy. Shar count your blessings that this creep is out of your life. he doesn’t seem like he’s going to be in his kids life. Britney acts as though she can not be without a man. She has made some stupid choices lately, and Do any seriously believe that this marriage is going to last a month. Shar doesn’t have to say a thing because their kids will know what a jerk their father is. Britney is too immature to know what to do with kids

CONGRATULATIONS TO SHAR JACKSON, KEVIN, DAUGHTER COREY AND THEIR SOON TO BE BORN SON…KEVIN JR.??? I CAN RELATE TO THIS SITUATION… ALTHOUGH BRITNEY IS MARRYING KEVIN..SHE MUST KEEP IN MIND THAT HE WAS A FATHER TO HIS CHILDREN FIRST AND IF BY CHANCE HE FORSAKES HIS KIDS AND BRIT STANDS FOR THIS…SHE WILL BE AS LOW AS WHALE S%&* LIKE A DEADBEAT FATHER…

Shar, he is not worth the time or effort. Please try to stay calm cause those hormones are raging and you want to deliver a healthy baby. Slutiny will get her’s ‘HOW YA GOT HIM, YOU WILL LOSE HIM. Even though you say, which i don’t believe that you are not mad at britany, take your anger out in the courts and demand all you can once they are married.

for those who made the racist comments, trust me Shar is not concerned with what you think and since moesha is in syndication i am sure she is not hurting for money. I did not even get made when i read your comments cause I know you are just some stupid jackass. Kevin is Garbage and just went for the money and will pay for treating the mother of his kids like this.

You are good Shar cause sistah girl he would have received his ass whipping if he humiliated me like that. He is a punk ass and she is a ass hole. What the hell is wrong with Brittany how are you gonna announce an engagement and show a ring when you bought it yourself. He has no pride

Once they are married shar, When he comes to visit the kids make sure your body is tight and get that piece of garbage in a compromising position. I would make sure it was caught on tape and post it for the world to see “brittany’s penninless no talented hubby caught in the act” sale it all over, have her humiliated and see how she likes it.

locs

hi shar. i just wanted to say i think it’s f* up for brit to sleep with a man she knew was with you and have his children. but i’m glad you are women enough to blame the man and not the women. he has 2 kids by you shar. and he goes and cheat on you. that’s f up. i hope you get him for child support. and brittany dumb a* will have to pay too. cause once they are married thier money become one. i use to like brittany. but i don’t anymore. she taking a man away from his childrens. i know the guy made up his own mind not to be with shar. but brittany should have been women enough to tell him “No!!!. i can’t take a guy who cheat on his girl and leave his children”. what goes around comes around brittany. and shar i’m not worry about you. i know you will be just fine.and you stupid people that think she is broke. she not!!!! you are so stupid. shar take care of your beautiful childrens.and may god bless you…….your #1 fan :)

1st let me get to my comment on Shar then I got something for Smarty’s little ass-I am not even worried about Shar because drama like this can only make a women stronger. Look at Nicole Kidman and what’s his face. I believe Nicole won an Oscar after all that drama. Brittney will soon learn not to marry any man that’s not on her level. Poor Janet had to pay her off her ex-husband to leave her alone. It’s ok Shar what comes around goes around-karma is the way of the world and Kevin will get his in the end-God don’t like ugly. As for Smarty pants-what the hell planet you living on. Why she got to be on Welfare? That’s an ugly comment to say. You must be an ugly person with issues. I don’t believe you’re life is any better than Shar’s, last time I check I wasn’t reading about you in the magazine. I think Smarty pants been drinking too much of that Hater-Ade he bought for Hate.50 I’m not even going to tell Shar to hang on becuase I’m sure she’s chilling right now. Go head girl-do you’re thing, sit back, relax and watch the divorce on TV in a few months. And I wish Smarty would write back and test me-see if I won’t come through this e-mail and put a foot up Smarty’s ass.

If Jackson doesn’t need money and is just “chilling” she doesn’t need anybody’e sympathy does she? And if she’s so fine then she’ll get herself another man and all will be peachy for her. And have no reason to care what happens to Federline and Spears.

Test.

Shar, kill’em with kindness.

Nuff said.

-ATL

You know what, you’re right-she’s not the finest thing on the planet and who said she needed any sympathy and yeah she will find another man. And shit she may or may not have any money. But the point is if you got people all up in her business like you and me and then yeah she would give shit. So you can’t be mad at her if she got something to say about her life. You just straight hating on the girl. Then you got the nerve to say she can go wait in the welfare line like that’s the 1st thing single black mothers do. You better check yourself. Put yourself in her shoes. Let’s see how fast your ass will be in the welfare lines bee-atch!

The hostility here is amazing! None of you know these people. The bottom line is that while it is true that Britney doesn’t owe Shar anything, once she and Kevin are married, her income definitely CAN be considered for child support purposes. I work in a child support office and it happens all the time. I have no idea why things fell apart with Shar and Kevin, but the decent thing for Kevin and Britney to do would be at least wait until his baby was born to announce their engagement instead of tormenting this woman during her last weeks of pregnancy.

Only if all parties choose to live in the same state and that law applies in that state. It isn’t a Federal or International law.

B.S. could give her a million just to be nice.

I don’t know these people but I’m not trying to be hostile towards Smart Ass-I just don’t like his/her narrow minded comments. If he/she thinks like that then someone needs to put some knowledge into that poor head of Smart Ass’. I do agree with you though about announcing their engagement. When you’re pregnant, you are beyond emotional and if she’s stressed enough then she could endanger the baby. And that’s not cool.

Miss Smarty….you need to get a life!!!! Obviously you also have alot of time on your hand to be able to pass judgement of Shar Jackson and infer that her only option is the “welfare line”. That comment could be taken as racist or in other words STUPID!!!! Perhaps you will be a position one day that you will have to support a child alone, and your harsh words will come back to haunt you!! To Shar Jackson….hold your head up high, as you have NOTHING to be ashamed of..Let Britney have him, she too will learn his true colors….

Britney is in a downward spiral, she never had any talent to begin with, it just took awhile for some people to figure it out..Now the “former virgin” has TRANSFORMED into a mega slut…in an attempt to hold on to fame and fortune, she flaunts herself like a circus act. Let her marry him…….maybe he’ll get her pregnant and decide to run…then she can sing “OOPS I DID IT AGAIN”….again!!!! It’s just a shame that the kids are the ones who lose out in this game that supposed “adults” play.

WHY get with that white boy anyway??She thought because he was white that he will treat her better than a black man? so she sees now that no matter what color the man they all fuck up, white men are no better than black men,She’s lucky if a black man wants her

Ok, people come on now….let’s really break it down. First of all take away all the “famous names” of these three people and what do you get? A dissed mother of two, which in my eyes is wrong! Some of you HATERS aka, DUMBASS, are failing to sit back and say what if you where Shar, how would you feel?

For the rest of the lost people out there who says she is washed up star, have you thought maybe she just took time off to raise the children she has? Second, of all other then Moesha, she has done movies, and the last I heard Nickelodeon, pays big for stars in their movies, you don’t know what she has, so SHUT UP! Worry about the money in your own pocket.

As for Britney, if she getting played…then she will just have to learn the hard way.

But at the same time, Shar is only 8 months pregnant, so that means Kevin care enough to sleep with Shar months ago. So I guess prior to meeting Britney, he wanted to play daddy and boyfriend!

Last but not least, if Kevin and Britney was So meant to be, then why and the hell when he danced in her 2000 tour, they didn’t hook up then.

One more thing, for the idiot who said the comment about Justin, if you have not noticed he has moved up in the world, to much bigger and better things. He does not have to do stupid things like this, to gain album sales! So ask your self, who does?

Take away the celebrity names and no one would be talking about it. All of this happens to ordinary people every day. There isn’t anything unusual happening.

This whole page is like the Jerry Springer Show.

I can totally emphathize with Shar. The last thing Shar should be focused on at this time is a dead-beat dad who would leave her impregnated, and their 2 year old child. Just out of respect for another woman, Britney shouldn’t be with him now, just wait until his former relationship has clearly ended before getting into a relationship with him. Of course we all know it’s not Britney’s fault if Kevin does not respect Shar and the relationship that they had together. But out of respect, she shouldn’t have pursued the relatioship. She did ask Kevin to marry her.

Message #21 is the most sensible post on this page.

This must be the ultimate slam in the face for you. But I got good news, you are truly the winner in this situation. If he did it to you, he will do it to her. You are a beatiful girl, and need to continue to be a wonderful mother to your child and newborn. He is so insensitive,a nd as for Brittany, that bit** is as ignorant as they come. ALL RESPECT FOR THAT HOE IS GONE!!!! She will definately get her just reward for her behavior. Anyway, gank that tramp for every dollar, dime and cent you can. Cause when they get married, her money is his money, and on the flip side, you get 44% of that…. Now how bout them APPLES…. I know it hurts now, but keep your head up and know that in the morning the sun always shines!!! Your Girllllll!!!!

For Ms. Smarty, I can tell that you have serious insecurity issues. Obviously you must not have a man, because you took time out to respond, and respond with such nonsense and lack of intelligence. It is people like you who gave black people a hard time due to your high levels of insecurities. Shar is a strong black woman and I know that she will survive this. It is unfortunate that she had to get herself involved with a low class womanizing son of a bitch. As for Brittany who can’t bear to see cobwebs form on her coochie will get what is coming to her eventually. This is possibly the best thing that will ever happen to Shar. It is good that she has finally gotten rid of that money hungry looser. Well the way I see it, If I was Shar, I would do a cart wheel every time I get my child support check, because I know it will be that bitch’s money supporting me and my children and even buying the very underwear I might be wearing.

Comment 21 is good, though I like comment 20 as well. But then again I made it.

Maybe if someone though for a second they’d have guessed that a name like “Smarty” or “Smarty Pants” was a clue that I was just wanting to see what reaction I could get.

I came here to read about Jeri and Jack Ryan and ran across this while I was browsing. I’ve had my fun, enjoyed your indignation and will be wandering off.

You guys keep having fun being morally outraged about the doings of tabloid personalities.

Merrie aka Smarty

SHAR, girl I know exactly how you feel . Just keep that little trick away from your kids, from a legal standpoint she is a bad influence on your babies. So remember that.And in court, celebrities are just people too! Otherwise , get yourself a good MAN not a little trifling BOY like KEVIN!!! If he could leave the mother of his kids, he’ll cheat on that lil Mouseketeer stripper!!! She ain’t nothing without her Money, She can’t sing for S#!t!!!!!when her looks go, then good luck to her. And let’s just see how long she really lasts in the limelight, everyone eventually fades out into the background . She keeps trying to re-invent herself, if she can’t be herself she will eventually flop. And she’s just a momma’s girl anyways.

shar, do what you have been doing. you are not the only single mother out there, that’s been dumped for someone who isn’t worth the time. Britney will always be Britney so you do what u have to do to take care of you and your family.

I’m not a fan of Britney Spears or Shar Jackson. So, It really doesn’t matter to me how this little drama plays out. We all have to live with the choices we make. Shar, Britney, and Kevin are no exception. I wish them all luck sorting through all the garbage. It looks like they have their work cut out for them.

All I can say about this story is: “Any man who can leave a woman pregnant with his child cannot be trusted”. Even if the relationship has gone bad, couldn’t the fool wait at least till the baby was a few months old?

I think that it is so stupid of Brittany to marry a man who has a child on the way by someone else. Brittany just wants some attention and this is her way of getting it, I don;t see how she just recently got married in Vegas for “fun” and all of a sudden she is in love with someone. Shar after you drop that baby i think you should open up a can of woop ass on both of them!!

I happened to stumble upon this page because I wanted to read up on the situation with the trio. After reading all the comments all I can say is: That is life, nuff said. We should really be more concerned about what is happening outside the US. I wont bash on Britney, Kevin or Shar because I dont know the whole story, but the only thing that matters in this situation are the children’s well-being.

Shar just take care of those babies and yourself and GET THAT CHILD SUPPORT!!Britney is a HOMEWRECKING b**!The samething that he did to you he will do to her if she doesn’t get rid of him FIRST! HE WILL TRY TO COME BACK ONCE SHE GETS RID OF HIS ASS,THE DARKER THE BERRY THE SWEETER THE JUICE!!!

I feel for Shar and I sympathize with her situation—it sucks. HOWEVER, Shar is the one who decided to have, not one, but two kids with a man who didn’t want to marry her. Ladies, having a baby or two won’t make him want to be married or feel obligated to be a good, trustworthy guy.

Britney is being naive and foolish in this whole dramatic situation but she is not the villan, Kevin is.

Good luck Shar and God Bless you and your babies. much love

It is truely amazing how this bit of news has spread like wildfire. I am so tired of hearing how stupid folk with money choose to live their lives, even at the expense of someone else’s happiness. Britney, J-lo, whomever the hell comes next, will forever come up with ways to keep them selves in the limelight - and it’s desparate tactics. You have an individual, who has been a walking contradiction since she came up on the scene - parading her virginity while wearing booty cutters - with these current turn of events,I ask you, is anyone here TRUELY suprised?? None of us know the full story, and unfortunately because of all the hype, the real issue isn’t being addressed - and that’s the children. Any story, no matter if there are celebraties involved or not, that involves children and one or two irresponsible adults will not have an easy or happy turn. In closing - Shar, stay strong; Britney, I’m so tired of you; Kevin, I think she said yes because you two look alike; and to finally put an end to this arguement: putting all aside about combined incomes in whatever jusrisdiction, Britney will be paying child support, because SHE PAYS KEVIN. There are obvious benefits with boning your boss.

To quote Bernie Mac “And I’m out this mutha f**kah!”

Some of you people on this message board are DUMD A.S.S.E.S!

First of all, Shar Jackson is not BROKE! I have seen her on more shows/movies than Moesha. And secondly, even though the Moesha show is OVER, and there are no more tapings, Moesha STILL comes on, everyday and Shar Jackson is still getting paid thousands of dollars for each show as long as UPN/WB continues to air the reruns. So you see, dumbies, the fact of the matter is this: WHETHER OR NOT SHAR IS WORKING RIGHT NOW OR NOT, SHE IS STILL GETTING PAID! She is making more money than many of you can even hope to make in your lives! So don’t hate on her. I seriously doubt that you will be standing in the welfare line long before she is.

Hellloooooooooo. Who would you rather date? Shar is a like a nightMare.

The fact of the matter is that if you take away the fortune and the fame this kind of thing is common for everyday life. Girlfriend gets pregnant, boyfriend cheats on pregnant girlfriend with intention to leave the girlfriend. I just feel really bad for the kids.

Moesha was one of my favorite shows and I believe that Shar Jackson is pretty. She is intelligent, at least that what I gather from her interviews and she has ambition. As a mother of two myself and a fan of the show I think that she could have done a whole lot better than him anyway.

I really do not think that Britney is really thinking this thing through…if she were she would realize that she is the other woman, and what she reaps, she is eventually is going to sow. On the other hand as highly as regard Shar, she should have never have gotten pregnant with the second baby without marrying him first.

I just hope the best for all parties involved…… AlaskanMama

Dear: Smarty Pants

You continue to show your ignorance with every stroke of your fingers. Shar is still getting paid. Infact, if she is a union actress, she gets a residual check anytime Moesha is showed anywhere in the world.

I’m not sure if you should feel sympathy for her. However, you should feel compassion ( that is a human emotion by the way ) for any pregnant, newly single, mother. Who has to explain to her 2 year old that her father won’t be coming home.

Also, please clarify your comment “standing in the welfare line with all the rest.”

The bottom line is a man should be your husband before he is your “babies daddy.” If you want a commitement, make sure you have it before you bring children into the mix. After all, they are the ones who will suffer for your actions.

This whole situation is sad…… I know that pregnancies wanted or unwanted happen every day….but, why can’t people wait to get married before they have these children? Marriages don’t always work out either, but if you are not able to say to someone “I will love you until death to us part” (AND SINCERELY MEAN IT! unlike 50% of Americans), then why bring these poor children into the world? They become pawns in their ignorant “parents” (wait that’s too kind) sperm donors’ and receivers’ game of life. As for Britany, give it a rest will you? I see you as J. LO. #2. The next time you say “I DO”, I hope that you go to premarital counseling and wait at least 6 months before having the lavish affair. If Britany does that, the wedding will probably never happen. I myself have been married for 10 years, have 3 children, and one wonderful stepdaughter! I know what it is like and realize that I’m also not perfect. But there will be numerous storms you will have to weather right from the start. Are you really serious Brittany about a life commitment? As for you Shar, please take care of yourself in your last month of pregnancy, use some protection next time, love those children, and please,PLEASE, don’t subject them to the so-called “music” of their stepmom!!!! Best of Luck, another Mommy from Northern Kentucky.

Some of these comments are crazy but anyway. This whole situation is just sad because 1)Britney has a lot of issues that she seems to like dealing with by running from relationship to relationship and diving into things such as marriage because she thinks that it will fix what’s messed up in her left. And the first thing that shows her a glimps of what she is looking for she wants to run with it without giving it time to develop. She needs to focus on herself rather than trying to get it from other ppl.
2) Kevin, this man makes me sick. He leaves the woman he got pregnant in L.A. while he’s skippin around Europe or whatever they went playing patting cake with Britney. I’m sure Shar had fam and friends with her but they aren’t the ones that got her pregnant and it’s not like he was doing something for real so he needed to be in America with her. His children should have been his first concern not trying to see what’s up with Britney cause if it was that deep they could have just waited until she was back in L.A. to finish getting to know each other. True we don’t know the full story about him and Shar since it’s become a he said/she said thing about whether they were together or not but like someone said he had to care enough to go make another baby with her and he should have cared enough to stay in America and be with her during her pregnancy. And yeah that was really tacky announcing the engagement while Shar was still pregnant they could have waited. I personally believe he’s doing it for the fame that comes along with being Mr. Britney Spears, whatever he’s a loser anyway. 3) Shar, she deserves her props cause the first thing out of most women’s mouth would be “that no singing biitch Britney stole my man” but no she pointed the finger at the right person, that sorry excuse for a baby daddy she got. The messed up thing about the whole situation is that she gotta go through this while she pregnant. Like Kevin don’t even seem to concern about the emotional stress this might be causin her, that’s not good for the baby. I think if him and Britney was for real, they could have waited for Shar to have the baby and Kevin get that part of his life straight and then do what they do but no they movin so fast like if they don’t spend every min they’ve known each other together and they don’t get married now, reality might quickly set back in. I think it’s Kevin feeding Britney what she want to hear and her lappin it up like a lil puppy. If I was Shar, just looking at it from the stand point of the well being of my kids, I’d look look at it as we just enrolled in the Britney Spears college fund cause she will be paying that child support. Pre-nup ain’r gon stop you from getting stuff while you in the marriage just nothing when you get out and where you think Kevin gon hit up when it’s time for that child support check- First National Bank of Britney. But on the real like hell I’d let my kids around some Britney Spears, that girl got some issues, she can barely take care of herself.

And to the ppl saying why are yall feeling sorry for Shar she got money let’s feel sorry for the mothers without it. Money is money it don’t matter if you rich or poor the thing is she the same as any other single mother she gotta raise her kids on her own and no matter how much money she got money ain’t gon buy the kids a daddy, her kids still gotta grow up without their daddy in the house, same thing and that’s tthe point. It’s more about the kids then how much money she got.

And Kevin reportedly spend father’s day with Britney in L.A. and not his daughter…..tsk tsk…

Survey: will Kevin Federline marry Britney Spears?

To all single parents posting here….

I’ve never posted before but feel COMPELLED to here. ‘Assuming’ Shar or ANY of the parties involved even read this site, I would tell her to maintain her dignity throughout this mess and be about HER biz. The presence of the ‘sperm-donor’ in this matter is not at issue for the well-being of her children who should be priority now. Sounds like she is working with her music and acting and will be able to support herself and her children just fine without him—IF she makes the right decisions—and WITHOUT welfare being a permanent option. AS ALL ARE ABLE TO.

You CHOSE to have children with this person..now deal with it. Had my daughter at 16 and was on welfare for exactly ONE MONTH until I could care for her on my own. That child graduated from a top college and is applying to Med School. All without the sperm donor’s help. (to her credit not mine)

Pity the Pop Tart who hasn’t quite gotten the message of what this life’s about yet. But discourage anybody harrassing her cuz that only shows YOUR failings and will blow up in your face.

Good luck and more so…God Bless you and yours!

Shar, your obviously lifeless for going on shows and talking about britnet and Kevin he’s done with you hunny move on with your self. If anything you should thank Britney for putting you back in the spotlight. Girl you should feel stupid for wanting him back . get alife and move on stop feeling sorry for yourself and take care of your child.

I hope Shar and her children are happy and that everyone involved get what is coming to them.

Shar you need to back off B*H leave them alone, When can britney babysit obviously your the one with the problem let them be happy even if your not.Oh and dont be surprised if kevins kids start calling Britney mom!!!!!!!!!

This comment is to Smarty….. What right do you have to make a comment about someone being in a Welfare Line? How do we know you aren’t in the Line yourself? Shar Jackson is making money everytime an episode of Moesha is shown on television. So before you make a dumb a** comment like that, you need to think before you ever speak!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I’ve said my peace…

And fell for Smarty’s joke.

Shar keep your head up. If he was cold enough to leave you in such a vulnerable state, he wasn’t a good man in the first place. Britney Spears is nothing but a home wrecker. She never had a man of her own since Justin Timberlake. I jsut read today that Britney and that guy want to be there when the baby is born. Just keep your head up. Once he realizes she isn’t nothing but a bed warmer, he’ll come back.

A comment to Halo (Posting #69) What is your damage????? Kid, you’re extrememly hostile over this! “Don’t be suprised if his kids start calling her mom”?? What kind of heartless cut-throat s**t is that?

boy these peoples are hostile, why dont we just forget the whole shebang, right now britney and fredeline are eating cavier and shar is getting ready to add one more name brand suit to her baby’s collection, hey I am from Jamaica probly I may be stupid because I am from the islands but we are broke and they have it made, so let them live there mixed up broken down life and we can try and get some more labrish (mixup) about beyonce, better topic i think

to ‘smarty’ and ‘this is so stupid’ Why were you here? Why arent you spending time with your mates? You had your butts here posting messages just like the rest . So if you life is so damn great and you arent interested in Britney or Shar or any celebrity for that matter, then why did you even bother wasting your precious energy to post a message.If you truly felt that way you wouldnt have been on this site in the first place. So check yourself before you post again. Unless looking like a hypocritical ass is what your job is. p.s. I do have a man. A real man that take care of his business. And having a man or not has nothing to do with posting or not posting messages. Your statment implies that one should be with her man 24/7. Are you with your mate 24/7. If you are you need a life. No couple should be together every waking moment. If they are they have some serious issue to deal deal with. The first being no friends. I think that my be your situation ‘smarty’

**I posted this message because I am tired of people posting messages to type smack about other people who post messages. If they werent here reading the messages they wouldnt know what was said or not said. There are so many other websites they could have gone to that dealt with something that they are interested in, why spend time and energy on a site that they supposedly have no interest in. Closet groupies!

Keep your head up, Shar. Stay in constant prayer for you and your children. Dont worry about Kevin and/or Britney, they will get there’s in due time. Be more of a woman than they give you credit for.

I make 9.00 an hour and have control over myself, when I met a man that adored me I backed away because he had a baby on the way… that turns a light bulb on to most women, but with great power comes great responsibility but these celebs with all this power do the opposite… makes no since to me… my point I am far from a millionaire but I could teach Kevin and Brittany a thing or two.. they have the power, the money but i guess these stars want no RESPECT!!! The reason I backed off when this man wanted to be with me was because of his unborn child, how would he ever have the chance to be there for the mother of his child, if he was worrying about me, I did it for hopes of this unborn child, it mattered to me what this child thought of my actions, even though this child had no voice!! i knew my man would come a long one day and that he was someone else’s. Think if all women in this world felt like this..

i hated when i next bitch get mad at the other female basically, its not britney fault. Shar you needed to check your man not Britney! you just upset cause your not marrying your baby daddy. If he wanted to be with you he would but now his with Britney. Now you look like the jealous bitch who ain’t got no life but waste time borthering Britney. Get over it and move one cause its seem like the did.

This is the saddest bunch of whining I have ever seen. Poor Shar, poor Shar. Boo-hoo. Get over it people. She can raise kids on her own. How many women do it today? The only reason it is even an issue is because it involves a beautiful celebrity (Britney).

What do you expect when you are unmarried. Maybe now that Kevin and Britney have some sort of COMMITMENT he’ll stick around.

Britney is wearing her heart on her sleeve and she can’t see Kevin for who he really is. What kind of father doesn’t even introduce his child to her new stepmon. Britney hasn’t even met his child yet and their getting married. GET A CLUE I think that Britney is too good for him and as soon as he cheats on her(and he will) she will feel like an a**hole.

Hi, Shar and best wishes to you and your babies. This comment comes in the light that unfortunately young people make mistakes. Shar your relationship with kevin sounds like it was a mistake but I’m sure you loved him and thought that you two would make it work. However, it is risky to have children out of wed-lock. I do have sympathy for you but you really should have known to make him marry you before you started the family. He isn’t innocent in this because if his character was of any worth he’d have marrried her simply because it is the right thing to do. Those children deserve to have a happy loving family and if Shar and Kevin didn’t think they could give them that, they never should have gotten them. But as I said, young people make mistakes. I have made plenty myself and would never put anyone down but those are the sort of questions you should ask your self before children are brought into the picture. Kevin and Britney sould really try to be more sensitive to Shar’s feelings right now. Having a baby is very difficult and you need all the support you can get. Even if they are madly in love right now, they could have waited until Shar had the baby to began rubbing her face in it. Just imagine how low she must feel. Imagine how small and worthless something like this makes a pregnant woman feel. Not only has your man really moved on, he moved on with one of the world’s biggest pop-icons ever? How would that make you feel? Now every move they make is going to be published on nearly every TV and magazine in the world, and the whole world gets to see him shame Shar at her most vulnerable time. His level of respect for the mother of his children gauges his level of self respect. This could spell trouble for Britney. But again, young people make mistakes. Some are more easily lived down than others though. Britney, if I were you, I’d think a little harder about what a move like this could do to my future and my career. Many may look negatively on the shabby way this whole thing went down. But if you truly love him, then love makes it right. Just make sure that it is a mutual love, because if Kevin was capable of doing this to Shar and his kids, believe me, your looks, talent, celebrity, nor money will be able to stop him from one day leaving you. Hopefully you wont get any babies from him. Britney there will always be beautiful women and men everywhere, all the time. It takes a real woman or man to grind their teeth and MAKE it work. It also takes an even bigger person to sacrifice what you want for the sake of someone (or in this case, two someones) else. In closing I’ll pray that this things blows over and that everyone comes out alright and happy. Let’s all chalk this up to being young. Someday we’ll all be able to sit back and laugh about this hopefully.

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I have to say that Britt you are not looking good girlfriend. What are you doing with a man who has three children? What do you think that says about you? He doesn’t love you but I doubt that matters to you. As far as the welfare line … smarty seems to know a lot about that line, bet you have been in it a few times. Doubt seriously Shar will need welfare, she will get good child support out of his allowence!

sHAR jACKSON IS AN EXAMPLE OF BLACKWOMEN RUNNING TO WHITE BOYS THINKING THAT THEY’LL BE TREATED BETTER…WRONG. gOOD LUCK HER IN THE FUTURE THOUGH

I am disgusted and disappointed in both women.When are we women going to stick together.If we did we could rule the world. We all know what head most men think with.I have been in love w/ a boy friend but chose not to have his child because he was to wishy washy,and being married was a must.I also made a consious decision to raise my children in a two parent home.Britney NEEDS TO GROW UP AND BUY$ some class. Im actually a fan of both women.Britney should want a man with much better character. Just think he could potentially be the father of her baby. I would have replaced kevin as a dancer and told shar to dump him and helpedher any way i could. Remember DOGS CAN ONLY EXIST IF FEMALE DOGS PLAY.,Alright ladies let s class up and stop having babies with a maybe guy.And please stop messing w/others men.Do some homework on your new guy.Stop being so trusting and believing everything we hear,.Forget what aman saids watch what he does. For the record all my children are by the same man MY HUSBAND

Shar honey, black or white a man is a man. I’m in a similar position with a 9mos old son and I am 6 1/2 mos pregnant . Forget the bull-shit and enjoy your little girl and the remainder of your pregnancy and keep your head up .There are many women who have been abandoned by their ” baby daddy ” including myself but , remember no matter how much it hurts you , your daughter and unborn son will be feeling the pain of losing her father. Fuck the haters , take care of you and your babies . The pain will. To ms. britt , he can’t love you if he doesn’t show love for his children .walking out on a relationship with a woman who has your child and is carrying your seed is not a sign of love , that’s a sign of disrespect for his children Ms. Shar and himself . Whatever you think you have , it won’t last . trust me . Ms.Shar forget about him , one day a man who respects your babies and you will come into your life and if your still trapped by anger toward your ex love will pass you by. Get it togeter girl. much love Ms.Chyna Raye

Hey Baby Girl, do not sweat it. You have ur kids and that all that really matters. I am sure u love them more than anything. so u let “wanna be momma britney” know there is a whole lot in paying child support. If she is up to play the part then PAY THE PART! Keep ur Head Up Shar! God Bless You LiL Sis!

Shar, just get paid (child support) once they marry and be happy and raise your kids.

To Kristi how is it Shar’s fault Kevin cheated on her ? I bet you can’t answer that question can you ? You can’t make a person cheat on you that is so stupid . Kevin is trash and if Britney can’t see that that’s her fault . Kevin is gonna do the same thing he did to Shar .Britney what makes you think he will not cheat on you . Now lets think he cheated on his girlfriend to be with you and left her . I don’t wish the best of luck for Britney and Kevin . Shar keep your head up and take care of yourself and your children . Your children are more important than Kevin . A Quote : Once a cheater, always a chaeter

I just want to clarify. I work in the child support system, and let me correct you. If Britney marries that man, pre-nup or not, he is entitled to a percentage of that $100 million she has. Therefore, Britneys money will be used by Kevin to pay child support to Shar and his kids. I’m sure he won’t work anymore, once he marries her. And if they stay married, I’m sure he wont be working—unless for Brit, he has to pay child support. Thats legality, in the books. Also, Moesha is in syndication, meaning its running reruns in hundreds of cities, and the actors of those shows get paid a good salary every time a show airs. Moesha airs twice a day in some cities. She also does small parts in movies. She doesnt have money like Britney, but she is living comfortable I’m sure. Britney will pretty much be getting herself in a mess if she marries him—which I don’t think she will. This is just an attempt to stay in the spotlight for Ms. Spears. Also, I don’t think some of you would be so inconsiderate and cold if Shar were a white girl. And I am a white girl for your info!!!

As long as they keep playing reruns of Moeshe Shar Jackson will continue to get paid!!!

Shar, What won’t kill you,makes you stronger!!!! Kevin, What goes around,comes around!!! Brittney, Once a cheater,Always a cheater!!!